Empowering the Youth without being judgmental
By: Suman Lone
We tend to be good at criticizing others and being judgmental because it is easy to spot flaws in people or things we encounter. Appreciation, on the other hand, requires a critical perspective and thinking behind it, and it takes time to pause and truly listen or observe something in order to appreciate or understand it. Perhaps this is why we choose to say that ‘the youth has gone astray’ instead of asking why the youth is going astray.
When a youth faces financial crisis and is forced to drop out of college or school, do we understand, or even try to understand, the reasons for such an ordeal? Family crises, such as disputes between parents or the serious illness of a family member, can push them into taking on responsibilities at young age. The fear of the future due to various reasons like unemployment and other issues also burdens the youth in their day-to-day lives. These hidden reasons can lead them towards destructive paths such as drug abuse, suicide, or other forms of distractions.
We often talk about rehabilitation centers and counselling sessions, but these are steps taken after a storm has already hit. What needs to be done is to create a peaceful and positive environment within our institutions like colleges, schools, campuses, offices, and other sectors where a significant portion of the youth works or studies. The inspirational figures in the lives of the youth, such as teachers, professors, academicians, parents, and others, need to contribute and understand their roles as well because the youth is going through a lot.
Furthermore, fostering open lines of communication is essential and creating spaces where the youth feel comfortable expressing their concerns and seeking guidance without fear of judgement is vital. Encouraging dialogue and active listening enables us to gain insights into their struggles and tailor support accordingly.
I agree with the views of an educational columnist, Aubaid Akhoon, when he says that ‘the youth, unencumbered by preconceived limitations, possess the audacity to challenge norms, break barriers, and redefine what is possible. Let us unleash their boundless potential and watch them soar to new heights of innovation and inspiration’.
The writer is a student of Amar Singh College and can be reached at [email protected].
