By: Syed Majid Gilani
I am writing this to Eve’s daughters with a heartfelt piece of advice. It is important for Eve’s daughters to understand the true value of their husbands and cherish them in their lives.
I urge you to safeguard your marriages by respecting and honouring your husbands. Grant your husband the position of authority in your home and life, and, take care of his needs without him having to ask. It is important for you to understand the value of your husband and the role he plays in your life.Show and expressyour affection, love, and gratitude everytime he looks at you. When he advises something beneficial and good, obey him willingly.
It is crucial to maintain a good relationship with your husband’s family. Prevent unnecessary interference from your own parental relatives into your marital life. Never underestimate your husband or make him feel insecure. Avoid dominating or subordinating him, instead strive to meet his all genuine needs and aspirations, and,respect his rightful authority over you. Consider his financial situation and avoid being overly demanding.
Actually, marriage is a great and beautiful gift from the Almighty, and we believe that marriages are fixed in heaven and celebrated on earth. The roles of husbands and wives are well defined in every religion and society. A good wife’s life is like an open book, with no secrets or hidden friendships and objectives. Trust you husband unconditionally and desire all joy, happiness, love, and bliss from him alone.A well natured wife loves, cares and respects her husband without any arrogance or ego. Infact, arrogance and ego do more than often become trouble makers in relationships. A loyal and caring husband loves a trustworthy, faithful reliable life partner, who shares her secrets with him and stands by his side through thick and thin.
A husband needs admiration, companionship and emotional support. She needs to be kind, respectful towards elders, should be family oriented and embrace cultural, traditional and familial values. So Eve’s daughter, remember to cherish and respect your husband and create a harmonious and joyful married life. Strive to be the best wife,and of course, you could be, for marriage is a divine union that deserves our utmost care and dedication.
The writer is a GST Inspector, J&K.syedmajid6676@gmail.com
