Remembering My Beloved Grandfather:
By: Er Aausyf Ibn Farooq
With a heavy heart and tears in my eyes, I pen down these words in loving memory of my dear grandfather, Assad Ullah, from DadasaraTral, who departed from this world on May 12, 2012. Though time has passed, the pain of his absence still weighs heavily on my soul, and not a day goes by without longing for his comforting presence.
Today, as I reflect on his life and the profound impact he had on me, I am filled with a mixture of sorrow and gratitude for the blessings he bestowed upon me. It’s been twelve years since he departed from this world, leaving behind an indelible mark on my heart and soul. Yet, the void his absence has left remains unfilled, and the ache of missing him persists, a reflection of the profound bond we shared.
My grandfather was a morally and religiously upright man. He lived a life firmly based on Islamic principles of justice, humility, and compassion. His actions reflected his beliefs, whether they were unwavering support for his family or kindness to those in need. On this anniversary, I honour his memories by striving to embody these values in my own life.
He was not just a guardian; he was my pillar of strength, my guiding light, and my unwavering source of love and support. From the moment I entered this world, he lifted me up in his arms and took me under his wings, nurtured me with boundless affection and care. Growing up in my maternal home, where his presence was a constant reassurance, I was blessed to experience the warmth of his love and the wisdom of his guidance.
In every aspect of my life, He played a pivotal role, shaping my character, instilling moral values, and a sense of resilience that continues to sustain me to this day. I still remember my childhood days. Every morning, as the sun rose, my grandfather would embark on his daily duties, and without fail, I would be by his side, eager to soak in his wisdom and bask in his presence. His prayers for my well-being still echoes in my ears, a constant reminder of his selfless love and devotion. Even now, I find solace in offering prayers for him, just as he did for me during his lifetime.
The passage of time has not dulled the ache of his absence; if anything, it has only magnified the depth of my longing for him. 12 years have passed since his departure, but his echoes of encouragement and his steadfast belief in my potential continue to resonate within me, propelling me forward in life’s journey.
One of the fondest memories I hold was the routine of his return from duty each evening. With eager anticipation, I would await his arrival, knowing that he would always have a treat or some foodstuff tucked away for me, was a simple profound gesture of his affection. Our bond transcended the conventional role. we were companions, confidants, and friends, bound together by an unbreakable bond of love.
Yet, what pierces my heart the most is the realisation that he is no longer physically present beside me. The void left by his absence is a constant reminder of the irreplaceable loss I have endured. Nevertheless, I find solace in the memories we shared, in the lessons he imparted, and in the love that continues to bind us together, transcending the boundaries of time and space. As I reflect on his life and legacy, I am reminded of the profound impact he had on shaping the person I am today. His love, his guidance, and his unwavering belief in my potential continue to inspire me to strive for greatness, to live a life of purpose and meaning. As I navigate life, his spirit remains a guiding force within me.
As I commemorate this day, I offer special prayers for my grandfather, asking Allah (SWT) to grant him mercy, forgiveness, and a highest place in Jannah.(Ameen-SumaAmeen)
The Prophet Muhammed (peace be upon him) taught us that when a person dies, all their deeds come to an end except for three: ongoing charity (SadaqahJariyah), beneficial knowledge, and a righteous child who prays for them.
The writer is an Engineer, Educator.Email: aasifhussain14@gmail.com
